Yes, In life, people were taught to search for true love in the hopes of falling in love with someone; everyone craves romance attention complaints and intimacy from another person. I think at some point in everyone’s life, they would like to fall in love with the man and or woman of their dreams, but have you ever thought about falling in love with yourself first. People walk around wanting to give and receive love from individuals when they do not know how to love themselves properly. It confuses me because I believe you cannot love anyone until you genuinely love yourself. I think in order to find true love you must first find it within yourself, get to know everything about yourself, you can’t allow another person to get to know your needs want and desire if you don’t you know, so Here are a few tips to get on the journey to dating and falling in love with yourself.
1.Look Yourself In the Mirror Daily and Recite Uplifting Affirmations
Positive affirmations allow you to uplift your spirit and release negative energy. It allows you to believe things about yourself. Like you are beautiful and smart and overall, a wonderful person to be around, which is true because you must realize that there is and will never be another person like yourself. You are a unique individual that has something to offer to the world, so reciting daily affirmations allows you to embed positivity within yourself.
2.Take yourself on a date
I’ve heard so many women say that they would never go to the movies alone or out to eat alone because they don’t want to look lonely or crazy by strangers, but little do they know by taking you’re on a date gives you time to be alone and in tune with your thoughts, and it gives you a chance to order whatever you want on the menu without feeling fat or being judge by another person. Another great thing about taking yourself on a date is that you can be yourself, you do not have to put on a performance for anyone, and you do not have to compromise your time to a thoughtless conversation or the check with anyone else; it is all about you which is and will always be a beautiful thing.
3.Gives you a chance is to really get to know yourself
The beautiful thing about dating yourself is that it is all about you. You do not have to worry about calling and or texting anyone. It gives you a chance to discover things you love and would like to try. You are giving yourself permission to chase after your dreams and goals and just overall get yourself together. While dating yourself, you can focus on school, start a business, climb the ladder at your job, work out, or just the freedom to change your mind about whatever you want as many times as you want. Getting to know yourself will give you a chance to independently explore new things without having to depend on someone else.
4.Your Self Esteem and Confidence will shoot through the roof
When you date yourself, it gives you a chance to really get Intune with yourself; you will know the things you want in a relationship and the thing you don’t want and will not tolerate. You will begin to accept everything about yourself and will not feel the need to compare your beauty to anyone else. You will be so confident that when you enter a relationship, friendship, and even family ship, You will stop all the drama at the door; you will not need validation from anyone that does not like, love, or value themselves. You will understand the difference between real love and struggle love. You will have so much confidence that any potential partner, friend, or family member will have to think twice before bringing negativity away.
5.Enjoy your own company
I always say if you do not like to be around you, no one else will; you must understand that it is ok to be alone and dive into your own vibes and energy. It will give you a chance to enjoy your own company by creating a spa day for yourself, journaling reading a book, or watching a good movie; it will also give you a strong sense of who you really are and what you really want out of life. Enjoying your own company will give you a chance to be comfortable with yourself mentally, physically, and spiritually; you will understand that it is your job to make yourself happy, you will feel free and empowered by enjoying your own company. You will also have easy access to yourself by unplugging yourself when you need time alone because alone time and self-care goes all in the same boat.
6.Only you can give yourself the greatest love
The oldest saying is that the greatest love of all is self-love. No one will ever love you the way you should love yourself. Imagine looking at your reflection in the mirror and loving that person you see; no one can give you that feeling but you. The way you think about yourself, what you say to yourself, and how you feel about yourself is your responsibility; never ever give anyone that much power to make you feel negative about yourself. Get your own place, car, and career. Never enter a relationship as a needy woman because that is just an opportunity for someone to take advantage of you. Have your own goals and your own life? Understand that having access to you, your time, and love is a privilege, and never allow anyone to tell you otherwise. Love is patient, kind, and beautiful. It is not abusive, physically, emotionally, or financially. Once you start to love yourself unconditionally, it will lead you to the truest love, which is love within yourself, and once the universe sees that, you will be treated like the phenomenal queen you truly are.
